Pause the Chaos. Transform the Frustration of Self-Betrayal into the Clarity of Your Heart’s Desire
The Alchemy Of Becoming
A 75-Minute Transformational Experience + 21 Days of Guided Integration
Where Are You?
You’ve reached the point where the exhaustion of self-betrayal has escalated into an internal scream: Is this it? This is not my beautiful life.
That scream – that frustration – is your call to action. It is the most powerful signal that your unique creative energy is bound up in the pattern of self-betrayal.
What we want instead is to shift toward prioritising your inner peace and heart’s desires.
The Alchemy Of Becoming Live Workshop
In this transformational workshop, you’ll discover which self-betrayal pattern has been directing your creative energy, meet your reclaimed identity, and journey through the complete RECLAIM method to redirect that energy toward what your heart truly desires.
The Pre-Work
Before the live workshop, you’ll complete two essential pieces that ground your transformation:
- The Self-Betrayal Quiz: Identify your primary and secondary betrayal patterns so you understand where your creative energy has been flowing
- The Heart’s Desires Worksheet: Connect with your authentic desires (not ‘should’ wants) so you know what your heart truly longs for
Bring these insights to the workshop – they become the foundation of your transformation.
The 21-Day Alchemist’s Journey: Guided Integration
The journey is structured around three cycles of seven days, ensuring a full progression through the RECLAIM method while prioritising gentle energy management. Each day takes just 2-5 minutes.
We’ll meet in a Facebook group and I will email you daily (optional).
What You’ll Walk Away With
By the end of the live workshop and the 21-day guided journey, you will:
1. Know exactly which self-betrayal pattern has been running your life
You’ll see the real source of your exhaustion, frustration, and stuckness – and why your creative life force has not been going into what you truly want.
2. Meet a different version of yourself – your reclaimed identity
Whether you’re a Magnetic Heart, Sovereign Creator, Radiant Presence or another archetype, you’ll connect to the woman you were always meant to be.
3. Understand the full path out of self-betrayal
You’ll discover the RECLAIM method and how each stage moves through your body, energy system, and choices.
4. Experience an immediate internal shift
Through the chakra-based journey (root to crown), you’ll feel grounded, clearer, and more aligned.
5. Find the courage to name what you truly desire
You’ll give your heart’s desires a voice and claim them out loud, without apologising for what you want.
6. Let go of some of the ‘stuff’ you’ve been carrying
You’ll let go of the stories, resentments, and patterns that no longer serve who you’re becoming.
7. Step into your creative authority
You’ll move from second-guessing to self-trust and from hesitation to aligned action.
8. Build real momentum through micro-actions that take just 2–5 minutes a day
With these daily actions you’ll gain clarity and understanding. Plus there’s no pressure.
9. Leave with a clear next step
You’ll know exactly how to continue your transformation, whether through deeper work or ongoing community support.
Invest In Yourself
When you join, you will be directed to the quiz and the Facebook group. When the group opens, you’ll get your heart’s desires worksheet and be warmly welcomed.
Investment: €88 for the workshop and 21 days integration practice.
The Logistics
Dates And Times
The live workshop on Zoom.
Wednesday, January 7th, 2026 (Live)
Session 1 (The Morning Session): 10:00 – 11:15 CET
Session 2 (The Evening Session): 19:00 – 20:15 CET
The 21-Day Alchemist’s Journey: Guided Integration
The journey is structured around three cycles of seven days.
- Week 1 (Jan 8th – 14th): Foundation – RECOGNISE, EXPLORE, CLAIM
- Week 2 (Jan 15th – Jan 21st): Heart work – LIBERATE, ACCEPT (includes a new moon)
- Week 3 (Jan 22nd – Jan 28th): Embodiment – INHABIT, MANIFEST
This Is Perfect For:
People who are already reflecting, slowing down, questioning, re-evaluating, and secretly craving a reset.
The holiday break naturally brings:
- emotional triggers
- family patterns
- old roles
- exhaustion
- boundary tests
- clarity about what’s no longer working
Working through your heart’s desires is the perfect way to reset 2025 and start 2026.
Why Join Me
This workshop came from the lived experience of writing Words From The Wild. When I sat back and reflected on what I had written, I saw so many patterns of self-betrayal.
I was initially shocked and then amused, because seeing things in writing makes everything so much clearer.
Of course, I have ‘healed’ many of these patterns but they sometimes creep in.
What I learnt was that when we deny our hearts’ desires, we create the ultimate betrayal.
Over the years I’ve led:
• Journey of the Heart
• The Awakened Spirit
• Ignite Your Purpose
• And many more workshops
And in each I was able to support my students to redirect their creative energy and power back where it belongs – in your desires, truth and becoming.
Frequently Asked Questions
What if I’m busy at the start of 2026? Will I fall behind?
Not at all. The workshop and 21 days is all in an online course and you can catch up as and when needed. I am available in the community to support you.
What if I miss a day during the 21-day journey?
These are micro-actions, not homework. Each practice takes just 2-5 minutes. If you miss a day, simply pick up where you left off. All daily practices are available in your integration workbook, so you can move at your own pace. What matters most is consistency, not perfection.
And you can sign up for the 21 days of emails and do each day when it suits you.
The group will remain open for a few weeks after the end of the journey.
Do I need any experience with chakra work or energy healing?
Not at all. This workshop is designed for complete beginners. I’ll guide you through each chakra with simple, accessible language. You don’t need to “see” colours or have mystical experiences – you simply need to be willing to place your attention in different parts of your body and notice what you feel. That’s it.
What if I don't believe in chakras?
That’s completely fine! Think of the chakras as energy centres or focal points in your body – scientific research shows that focused attention on different body areas activates different neural networks and emotional states. Whether you approach this as spiritual practice or embodied psychology, the transformation works. What matters is your willingness to bring awareness to your body.
What if I've done personal development work before and nothing has stuck?
This is different. Most personal development stays in your head – insight, understanding, new perspectives. The RECLAIM method works through your body via your chakra system. When you practice redirecting energy from root to crown, you’re building new neural pathways and somatic patterns. This isn’t just about knowing differently – it’s about being different. That’s why the changes last.
Can I do this work if I'm going through a difficult time right now?
Yes, with gentleness. This work meets you where you are with compassion. The RECOGNISE stage is specifically about safety – you won’t be pushed to go deeper than feels right. That said, if you’re in acute crisis, please ensure you have professional support in place. This workshop complements therapy beautifully but doesn’t replace it.
I'm not sure which self-betrayal pattern I am. Will I still benefit?
Absolutely! That’s exactly what the pre-work Self-Betrayal Quiz is for. You’ll discover your primary pattern (and often a secondary one) before the workshop. I’m guessing that you won’t be surprised by what you discover. Sometimes it’s not what you expected, and that awareness alone is transformative.
Is this workshop recorded?
The workshop is not recorded because I have broken every step down into modular form and it is available through The Alchemy Of Becoming course. You get the workshop, 21 days and much, much more.
However, the live experience is powerful – there’s something transformative about journeying through the chakras together in real-time with other women who are also choosing themselves. I encourage you to attend live if at all possible.
How much time do I need to commit daily?
Just 2-5 minutes per day for the micro-actions. That’s it. These aren’t complicated practices. They’re small, powerful actions designed to fit into your real life. Most participants do them first thing in the morning or right before bed.
Will I have support during the 21 days?
Absolutely. You’ll have:
- Daily micro-action in the group and emails guiding each practice
- Weekly teaching with deeper integration (Days 7, 14, 21)
- Private community group where you can share, ask questions, and support each other
- The integration workbook as your constant companion
You’re not doing this alone.
What happens after the 21 days?
You’ll have three options:
- Continue practicing independently – You’ll have all the tools, the framework, and the embodied understanding to keep choosing your reclaimed identity
- Join The Return to The Wild Circle – Our ongoing community with monthly gatherings, seasonal rituals, and continuous support for living as your reclaimed self
- Deepen with Reclaim Your Wild – The full 8-week program where you discover your Heart Project and fully embody the RECLAIM method with my guidance
On Day 21, you’ll receive clear information about all pathways, but there’s no pressure. You get to choose what feels aligned for your reclaimed identity.
I'm worried I'll start this and not finish. What if I fail?
First, there’s no failure here. This is a practice, not a test. Second, that worry? It’s probably coming from your self-betrayal pattern – the Perfectionist who needs to do it perfectly, the Self-Doubter who questions if you can, the Postponer who thinks you should wait until you’re more ready.
You’re already enough to do this work. The micro-actions are designed to be doable even on your hardest days. And the community will hold you when your pattern tries to convince you to quit.
What if I have more questions?
Email me at [dd@daledarley.com] or send me a message on Facebook. I’m happy to answer any questions and help you discern if this workshop is right for you right now.