The Alchemy Of Becoming
Come Home To Yourself
A Live 2 hour 1:1 Workshop + 21 Days of Guided Integration
The Alchemy Of Becoming Live Workshop
In this interactive workshop, you’ll be guide back to your heart and hearts desires.
We’ll explore your heart’s desire. Not what you think you should want, but what your HEART truly desires.
We’ll uncover which self-betrayal pattern and chakra has been blocking these desires.
Journey through the complete RECLAIM cycle to redirect your energy toward what your heart truly desires and activate every energy center in your body to align with it.
The Pre-Work
Before the live workshop, you are invited to complete two essential pieces that ground your transformation:
- The Self-Betrayal Quiz: Identify your primary and secondary betrayal patterns so you understand where your creative energy has been flowing
- The Heart’s Desires Worksheet: Connect with your authentic desires (not ‘should’ wants) so you know what your heart truly longs for
Bring these insights to the workshop. However, on the day we will explore.
The 21-Day Guided Integration
This is your gift to yourself. 21 days to integrate and own what you want.
The journey is structured around three cycles of seven days, ensuring a full progression through the RECLAIM method while prioritising gentle energy management. Each day takes just 2-5 minutes.
At the end of the 21 days and I am guided by you, we’ll meet again for a 30 minute catch up call.
The Full Alchemy Of Becoming Course
The Alchemy of Becoming is the journey back to the woman you were before you learned to abandon yourself.
We explore:
- Your Heart’s Desires
- Potential Blocks
- The Alchemy of Becoming
- Chakras And Energy Management
- The RECLAIM Chakra Journey
- 21-Day Integration
The Outcome
- Clarity – naming what you want
- Courage – taking action despite fear
- Connection – being witnessed in the messy middle
- Peace – trusting yourself through the process
Bring yourself and your journal and be open to possibilities.
To ponder
You’ve spent decades building a life that looks right. Now, you’re spending all your creative energy maintaining it. What would happen if you stopped being the caretaker of your reputation and started being the inhabitant of your heart?
See you on the inside.
Invest In Yourself
When you join, you will be directed to the quiz the heart’s desires worksheet and be warmly welcomed.
Investment: €195 for the workshop and 21 days integration practice. Plus you get the full course.
What You’ll Walk Away With
By the end of the live workshop and the 21-day guided journey, you will:
Immediate Clarity (During the Workshop):
- Deep recognition of what your heart truly desires – not what you think you should want, but what you actually want
- Understanding of which self-betrayal pattern has been keeping you from your desires and which chakra holds the block
- A complete journey through the RECLAIM cycle, with every energy center activated and aligned with your heart’s desires
- Practical tools to redirect your creative energy from self-abandonment to self-becoming
Your 21-Day Integration Package:
- Daily 2-5 minute practices designed to anchor your transformation without overwhelm
- Structured progression through three seven-day cycles that honor your energy capacity
- Guided support to integrate what you discovered in the workshop into your daily life
- A clear pathway from recognition to becoming
The Lasting Transformation:
- Permission to want what you want without apology or justification
- Awareness of when you’re abandoning yourself and how to choose differently
- Energy alignment across all seven chakras so your entire being supports your desires
- A practice for becoming the woman who makes her heart’s desires reality
- The courage to step into discomfort and keep becoming
- Proof that transformation doesn’t require force – it requires alignment
The Logistics
The 21-Day Alchemist’s Journey: Guided Integration
The journey is structured around three cycles of seven days.
- Week 1 : Foundation – RECOGNISE, EXPLORE, CLAIM
- Week 2 : Heart work – LIBERATE, ACCEPT
- Week 3 : Embodiment – INHABIT, MANIFEST
Who This Is For
This workshop is for you if:
You’re a woman in midlife who knows, deep down, that you’ve been living for everyone else. You’ve spent decades being the good daughter, the devoted partner, the selfless mother, the dependable colleague – and somewhere along the way, you lost track of what you actually want.
You’re tired of betraying yourself. Tired of saying yes when you mean no. Tired of making yourself someone else to make others comfortable. Tired of abandoning your desires because they seem selfish or impractical or too late.
You’re done waiting for permission, waiting to be ready and waiting for the “right time” that never comes.
You’re here because:
- You can feel your heart’s desires whispering (or screaming) but you’ve been too afraid to listen
- You suspect you’ve been blocking your own transformation through familiar patterns of self-betrayal
- You’re ready to reclaim the creative energy you’ve been spending on making yourself smaller
- You want to align your entire being – body, energy, spirit – with what you truly desire
- You’re willing to step into discomfort because staying stuck is more painful than growing
- You know there’s a version of you waiting to emerge, and you’re finally ready to become her
You don’t need to:
- Have it all figured out (that’s what we’re here to discover)
- Be “spiritual enough” or know anything about chakras (I’ll guide you through everything)
- Be ready to make massive life changes tomorrow (we start with awareness and alignment)
- Be perfect or healed or done with your past (this is for women in the messy middle of becoming)
This is for the woman who is tired of abandoning herself and ready to come home to who she truly is. The woman who knows she was meant for more and is finally willing to claim it.
If you’re reading this and feeling that pull, that recognition, that “yes, this is for me” – trust it. Your heart knows.
Why Join Me
This workshop came from the lived experience of writing Words From The Wild. When I sat back and reflected on what I had written, I saw so many patterns of self-betrayal.
I was initially shocked and then amused, because seeing things in writing makes everything so much clearer.
Of course, I have ‘healed’ many of these patterns but they sometimes creep in.
What I learnt was that when we deny our hearts’ desires, we create the ultimate betrayal.
Over the years I’ve led:
• Journey of the Heart
• The Awakened Spirit
• Ignite Your Purpose
• And many more workshops
And in each I was able to support my students to redirect their creative energy and power back where it belongs – in your desires, truth and becoming.
Frequently Asked Questions
What if I miss a day during the 21-day journey?
These are micro-actions, not homework. Each practice takes just 2-5 minutes. If you miss a day, simply pick up where you left off. All daily practices are available in your integration workbook, so you can move at your own pace. What matters most is consistency, not perfection.
And you can sign up for the 21 days of emails and do each day when it suits you.
The group will remain open for a few weeks after the end of the journey.
Do I need any experience with chakra work or energy healing?
Not at all. This workshop is designed for complete beginners. I’ll guide you through each chakra with simple, accessible language. You don’t need to “see” colours or have mystical experiences – you simply need to be willing to place your attention in different parts of your body and notice what you feel. That’s it.
What if I don't believe in chakras?
That’s completely fine! Think of the chakras as energy centres or focal points in your body – scientific research shows that focused attention on different body areas activates different neural networks and emotional states. Whether you approach this as spiritual practice or embodied psychology, the transformation works. What matters is your willingness to bring awareness to your body.
What if I've done personal development work before and nothing has stuck?
This is different. Most personal development stays in your head – insight, understanding, new perspectives. The RECLAIM method works through your body via your chakra system. When you practice redirecting energy from root to crown, you’re building new neural pathways and somatic patterns. This isn’t just about knowing differently – it’s about being different. That’s why the changes last.
Plus I am acting as your guide and witness. You do the work 🙂
Can I do this work if I'm going through a difficult time right now?
Yes, with gentleness. This work meets you where you are with compassion. The RECOGNISE stage is specifically about safety – you won’t be pushed to go deeper than feels right. That said, if you’re in acute crisis, please ensure you have professional support in place. This workshop complements therapy beautifully but doesn’t replace it.
I am acting as your witness.
I'm not sure which self-betrayal pattern I am. Will I still benefit?
Absolutely! That’s exactly what the pre-work Self-Betrayal Quiz is for. You’ll discover your primary pattern (and often a secondary one) before the workshop. I’m guessing that you won’t be surprised by what you discover. Sometimes it’s not what you expected, and that awareness alone is transformative.
Is this workshop recorded?
The workshop is not recorded unless you want a recording.
I have broken every step down into modular form and it is available through The Alchemy Of Becoming course. You get the workshop, 21 days and much, much more.
How much time do I need to commit daily?
Just 2-5 minutes per day for the micro-actions. That’s it. These aren’t complicated practices. They’re small, powerful actions designed to fit into your real life. Most participants do them first thing in the morning or right before bed.
Will I have support during the 21 days?
Absolutely. You’ll have:
- Daily micro-action emails guiding each practice
- Weekly teaching with deeper integration (Days 7, 14, 21) in teh course
- Private community group where you can share, ask questions, and support each other
- You can also message me with your questions
You’re not doing this alone.
What happens after the 21 days?
You can:
- Continue practicing independently – You’ll have all the tools, the framework, and the embodied understanding to keep choosing your reclaimed identity
- Stay In The Alchemy Of Becoming Community – My community on Skool.
- Join The Map Back To You 12 week 1:1 program
I'm worried I'll start this and not finish. What if I fail?
First, there’s no failure here. This is a practice, not a test. Second, that worry? It’s probably coming from your self-betrayal pattern – the Perfectionist who needs to do it perfectly, the Self-Doubter who questions if you can, the Postponer who thinks you should wait until you’re more ready.
You’re already enough to do this work. The micro-actions are designed to be doable even on your hardest days. And the community will hold you when your pattern tries to convince you to quit.
What if I have more questions?
Email me at [dd@daledarley.com] or send me a message on Facebook. I’m happy to answer any questions and help you discern if this workshop is right for you right now.