For women who want to come home to themselves
You’ve done the healing, burned the sage, and are still asking, “Now what?”
Now what is asking your heart what it truely wants and then listening – becoming a witness to your true desires.
So many of us hide these under layers of stuff – self-betrayal – and then wonder why we feel unfulfilled.
You don’t have to burn it all down to begin again – though you may want to. All you have to do is remember who you really are and create something that really matters – heart project that will deliver your hearts desires.
The Alchemy of Becoming
A space to finally exhale.
You’ve been holding your breath for so long, you forgot what it feels like to simply be.
If you are ready to step into your becoming, you’re in the right place.
Becoming is what happens when you take small daily actions towards what you want and honour who you are becoming.
I’m Dale an author, teacher, and guide whose mission is to help people understand their heart’s desires and live more peaceful, content, and fulfilled lives. Through meditation, reflection, and spiritual practice, I inspire others to come home to themselves.
Get The Book - Words From The Wild
This book is for women who have been betrayed and have betrayed themselves. For those tired of saying yes when they mean no, of trying to prove their worth, and of pretending everything is fine while their bodies scream to be heard.
I wrote this to remind you (and me) that you were born with everything you need to live this very odd human life and that the things you’ve been trying to ‘fix’ or change about yourself might be the alchemy you and the world need.
This all came about whilst I was still in the messy middle of becoming and choosing myself daily over the safer option of remaining isolated and staying hidden. I offer these words not as someone who has it all figured out, but as someone who has decided that figuring it out was never the point. The point was always to come home to ourselves. This is my invitation for you to do the same.
Through fourteen vulnerable chapters, I trace the journey from betrayal to belonging to yourself. From learning that bitterness isn’t a fault in my character but a guidance system pointing toward necessary boundaries. Awakening to the truth that empty spaces aren’t empty but pregnant with possibility. And understanding that your body’s rebellion isn’t an inconvenience – it’s your wisest teacher demanding you listen.
Which Self-Betrayal Archetype Are You?
This quiz is about where your life-force energy has been going and how to bring it back home to your body’s wisdom.
Are you:
- A = The People-Pleaser
- B = The Perfectionist
- C = The Invisible Woman
- D = The Self-Sacrificer
- E = The Self-Doubter
- F = The Postponer
- G = The Abandoner
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The Path Back to Your Wild Heart
The Alchemy Of Becoming Community
Imagine a space where you can share the truth you’ve been carrying alone.
Where your confusion is welcomed. Your questions honoured. Your becoming celebrated.
Where you don’t have to perform, prove, or perfect anything.
Just come as you are.
The Alchemy Of Becoming Workshop
A powerful 2 hour 1:1 Workshop where we explore your hearts desires and heart project.
The outcome is:
- Clarity
- Courage
- Connection
- Peace
The workshop is followed by 21 days of micro actions through my RECLAIM process. Plus you are gifted the full Alchemy of Becoming course.
The Map Back To You
12 week 1:1 Program which offers
- A way to uncover the deep longings we’ve buried under acceptable desires
- Witnessing for the parts of ourselves we’ve betrayed (even subtly)
- Permission to want what we actually want, not what we think we should want
- A path back to trusting our own knowing
21-Day Wild Remembering Practice
This 21-day practice is your invitation to remember what your bones already know—that you are not separate from nature but a part of it, that your energy naturally ebbs and flows like the tides, that your creativity has seasons just like the earth, and that your well-being depends not on fighting your natural rhythms but on dancing with them.
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