The Alchemy Of Becoming

The art of becoming in the messy middle
Self Betrayal Quiz 21 Day Wild Remembering

For women who want to be, belong and become

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You’ve done the healing, burned the sage, and are still asking, “Now what?”

You’re a woman who has been on a hugely transformational journey – maybe an uncomfortable one – and this feels like the time to stop, breathe, and realign. This is your sign.

You don’t have to burn it all down to begin again – though you may want to. All you have to do is remember who you really are and create something that really matters.

The Alchemy of Becoming

A space to finally exhale.

You’ve been holding your breath for so long, you forgot what it feels like to simply be.

If you are ready to step into your becoming, you’re in the right place.

I’m Dale, an author, writer, teacher and guide helping women rewrite their stories, reclaim their power, and reinvent their lives with clarity, creativity, and courage.

This is your second act, let’s make it rock.

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This book is for women who have been betrayed and have betrayed themselves. For those tired of saying yes when they mean no, of trying to prove their worth, and of pretending everything is fine while their bodies scream to be heard.

I wrote this to remind you (and me) that you were born with everything you need to live this very odd human life and that the things you’ve been trying to ‘fix’ or change about yourself might be the alchemy you and the world need.

This all came about whilst I was still in the messy middle of becoming and choosing myself daily over the safer option of remaining isolated and staying hidden. I offer these words not as someone who has it all figured out, but as someone who has decided that figuring it out was never the point. The point was always to come home to ourselves. This is my invitation for you to do the same.

Through fourteen vulnerable chapters, I trace the journey from betrayal to belonging to yourself. From learning that bitterness isn’t a fault in my character but a guidance system pointing toward necessary boundaries. Awakening to the truth that empty spaces aren’t empty but pregnant with possibility. And understanding that your body’s rebellion isn’t an inconvenience – it’s your wisest teacher demanding you listen.

Which Self-Betrayal Archetype Are You?

This quiz is about where your life-force energy has been going and how to bring it back home to your body’s wisdom.

Are you:

  • A = The People-Pleaser
  • B = The Perfectionist
  • C = The Invisible Woman
  • D = The Self-Sacrificer
  • E = The Self-Doubter
  • F = The Postponer
  • G = The Abandoner

The Path Back to Your Wild Heart

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The Alchemy Of Becoming

Imagine a space where you can share the truth you’ve been carrying alone.

Where your confusion is welcomed. Your questions honoured. Your becoming celebrated.

Where you don’t have to perform, prove, or perfect anything.

Just come as you are.

We gather around:

Daily Wisdom
Gentle whispers that arrive like a hand on your shoulder. Just enough to remind you: you’re not alone in this.

Weekly Write From The Wild
Just you, your pen, and permission to be honest.

Guided Meditations
Come home to your body. Feel your energy. Reconnect with the parts of yourself you’ve been too busy to notice.

 

Multi-Day Adventures
Four times a year, we slow down even more. Deep, nourishing immersions where transformation happens because you were ready.

Moon & Chakra Wisdom
Your body knows things your mind hasn’t caught up to yet. We work with lunar rhythms and energy centres.

Quarterly Deep Dives
Every three months, we explore one teaching together. Slowly. With space to integrate.

All The Courses
Everything I teach, available whenever you’re ready. Learn what calls. Leave what doesn’t. There’s no timeline here but yours. These are each available at $35 each.

21-Day Wild Remembering Practice

This 21-day practice is your invitation to remember what your bones already know—that you are not separate from nature but a part of it, that your energy naturally ebbs and flows like the tides, that your creativity has seasons just like the earth, and that your well-being depends not on fighting your natural rhythms but on dancing with them.

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