How to Take the Self-Betrayal Archetype Quiz

This quiz will help you discover your personal patterns of self-betrayal – the ways you unconsciously abandon, diminish, or silence your authentic self.

Understanding your archetype is the first step to reclaiming your wild heart and redirecting your creative energy towards what truly matters.

Before You Begin

What You’ll Need:

10-15 minutes of uninterrupted time

A quiet space where you can be honest with yourself

An open mind and willingness to see uncomfortable truths

Important Mindset

There are no “wrong” answers – only honest ones

Don’t overthink it – your first instinct is usually most accurate

Be kind to yourself – these patterns developed as survival strategies

This is about awareness, not judgment – as my mum always says, you are not a robot, you’re human

Step 1: Read Each Question Carefully

Each question presents a common life situation. Read it fully before looking at the answer options.

Example:

“When someone asks you to do something you don’t want to do, you typically:”

Step 2: Choose the Answer That Feels MOST True

You’ll see 7 different answer options (A through G) for each question.

Choose the ONE that:

• Feels most like your natural, automatic response
• Describes what you actually do (not what you wish you did)
• Resonates emotionally, even if it’s uncomfortable

Tips:

• If multiple answers feel true, choose the one that happens most often
• If you’re torn between two, pick the one that feels more emotionally charged
• Don’t choose what sounds “best”  – choose what’s most honest

Step 3: Answer All 14 Questions

The quiz has 14 questions in total. You’ll see a progress counter at the top showing how many you’ve completed.

You must answer all 14 questions to get your results – the “Discover Your Archetype” button won’t work until all questions are answered.

If you’ve done significant personal work and some questions don’t apply anymore, choose ‘None of these apply’ – that’s valuable information showing you’re already in transformation.

Step 4: Submit and View Your Results

Once you’ve answered all 14 questions:

1. Click the “Discover Your Archetype” button at the bottom
2. The page will automatically scroll to show your results
3. Your results will include:
   • Your Primary Archetype (your main pattern)
   • Your Constellation (secondary patterns that also show up)
   • A visual chart showing your complete profile
   • What this means for you and how to redirect your energy

Make sure you write down your results.

DO:

• Take the quiz when you’re calm and reflective
• Answer based on your actual behaviour, not aspirations
• Trust your gut reaction to each question
• Be honest about uncomfortable truths
• Read your full results without skimming

DON’T:

• Rush through just to get results
• Answer how you think you “should” answer
• Take it when you’re triggered or upset
• Compare your results to others
• Use the results to beat yourself up

Privacy Note

This quiz does not:

• Collect or store your answers
• Track your personal information
• Share your results with anyone
• Your answers and results stay completely private to you.

Your Primary Archetype

This is the self-betrayal pattern you use most frequently. It will show the highest percentage in your results.

The 7 Archetypes:

1. The People-Pleaser — You abandon yourself to keep others happy
2. The Perfectionist — You punish yourself with impossible standards
3. The Invisible Woman — You make yourself small and stay hidden
4. The Self-Sacrificer — You over-give until you’re depleted
5. The Self-Doubter — You question everything about yourself
6. The Postponer — You defer your life to “someday”
7. The Abandoner — You disconnect from your body and feelings

Your Constellation

Most women don’t have just ONE pattern – they have a constellation of 2-3 patterns that work together.

Your results will show:

• Strong secondary patterns (30% or more of your primary score)
• Moderate secondary patterns (15-29% of your primary score)

Example Result:

• Primary: The People-Pleaser (50%)
• Strong Secondary: The Invisible Woman (35%)
• Moderate Secondary: The Self-Sacrificer (20%)

This means you people-please WHILE staying small WHILE over-giving – these patterns reinforce each other.

Your Visual Profile

You’ll see a bar chart showing your percentage across all 7 archetypes. This gives you the complete picture of how your creative energy has been flowing.

Make sure you write your results down.

Immediate Actions:

1. Read Your Full Results
   • Take time to really absorb what resonates
   • Notice where you feel defensive (often means it’s hitting truth)
   • Celebrate the awareness – seeing the pattern is powerful
2. Explore Your Archetype Pages
   • Each archetype has a detailed guide
   • Learn about your specific patterns, drivers, and transformation path
   • Learn which chakra is most likely blocking you
   • Understand your “Reclaimed Identity” (who you become when you redirect)
3. Take The Course – Break the Self-Betrayal Cycle

You’re brilliant at taking care of everyone else. But when it comes to yourself? You don’t even know where to start. This course is your way home.

Going Deeper:

Join The Write From The Wild Community –  Coming Soon

• Think of this as your monthly retreat that never asks you to leave home.
• Daily Wisdom & Multi-Day Adventures
• Monthly Wild Moon Writing Circle – set intentions and release
• Storytelling Circles – share and be witnessed
• Monthly Ebook – a course in an ebook stacked full of value
• Weekly Write From The Wild – time to explore and reflect
• Chakra Wisdom & Energy Practices – to promote everyday balance and harmony

A – The People Pleaser

B – The Perfectionist

C – The Invisible Woman

D – The Self-Sacrificer

E – The Self-Doubter

F – The Postponer

G – The Abandoner